This evening I went for my long overdue haircut and got home only at 10+pm.
I thought Little Foot would already be in bed, so I didn’t hurry and even opened the letter box. I walked in, went to wash my hands in the kitchen. And when I walked out of the kitchen, a teary-eyed Little Foot trotted out from the bedroom and greeted me with a silent, imploring face.
She touched my hair and said “Mummy cut hair”.
Aunty Lily must have been telling her that Mummy went to cut hair to explain my absence.
Her tears obviously meant she had enough of waiting for me to get home while she’s sleepy already.
Oh, my heart pinched a little.
So we spent time opening the packages from Book Depository which included 2 children’s books. We read one of them.
She wanted milk. We spent a bit of time in bed together, but Little Foot didn’t want to wind down and sleep.
She wanted to stay up longer with me to play. And so I piggybacked her to the living room, watched her play and helped her with some of the lining up of Hello kitty toys.
She counted 1 to 8 flawlessly (first time she did it for me!).
She was yawning but still wanted to play. I indulged her.
Finally she held my hands and walked us back to the bedroom, then nursed to sleep.
Tonight, I’m acutely aware of how much she had grown.
And I’m wistful. The latch-to-sleep days may well be over soon.
Tonight I’m also painfully aware that come 2017, my coming home later (and not being able to pick her up from school) will become a regular occurrence.
It saddened me.
I can only pray that she will be understanding of the limited time I can give to her and hopefully, we can find a good balance somewhere.
Work and family – Two words that co-exist awkwardly together for every working parent. Sometimes we want to have our cake and eat it, but with finite time and energy, the best bet is to find a balance…and have good support from family to fill in whenever we are absent. I hope that I will be able to find that balance and not lose this closeness with my Little Foot. Otherwise, everything we strive for will be pointless and meaningless pursuits.
Thanks for waiting up for me, baby.
Love you always.