No photos today.
Day 5 of school; Day 3 of leaving her with the teachers.
Dropping Little Foot off is becoming more tricky, obviously the baby knew what was coming — Mummy was going to pass her to someone and walk out. She insisted on carrying her backpack (bear bear!) and her toy dog (Ah-Ah!) around the class, refused to lose bodily contact with me. In a last ditch attempt to reject this arrangement, she packed her items, held my hand and walked to the shoe cubbyhole, took out her shoes sat down and attempted to wear them.
A clear signal to Mummy to “lets get outta here”.
Heartbroken to see her in this state. I stayed with her as we waited for familiar faces to arrive (Gong 老师 has taken ill, and the other two teachers were not in so early). By 9am, it was clear I was going to have to really move off. So I did. Poor Little Foot cried big tears. Seriously distressed.
As I crossed the road and walked up the hill to my office, I reflected on her old weekday routine:
- Breakfast/Milk
- Morning visit to the market/playground with Aunty
- Playtime
- Bath time (bubbles time!)
- More playtime, Barney, books, anything she wanted to do, she was free to roam around the house.
- lunch
- Nap
- Milk
- Playtime
- Visit to the playground again with Aunty
- Dinner
- Playtime/reading time with mummy and papa
- 2nd dinner with mummy and papa & Korean Drama time
- Bath time
- Playtime in the corridor (sometimes before bath time)
- Get ready for bed.
Breaking her free spirit, breaking this old routine is heart-wrenching for me.
My 19-month-old doesn’t quite understand why there needs to be this change, and she certainly didn’t see anything wrong with the old routine, where she made all the little decisions – what clothes to wear, what shoes to wear, which toys she will pick from the boxes and cupboards, when it is a good time to have some biscuits or bread… which room she will explore in the house.
My 10 minute walk ended.
I needed to shake the sinking feeling that was creeping into my soul, lift up my chin and console myself that it will get better, she will like her new friends and new routine soon, and hey, it’s only 3 hours more to go before I go pick her up again during my lunch time.
Back to work, back to emails. Little Foot’s sad face still imprinted in my memory. Juxtaposed with the funny situation last night when she decided to climb out of bed to go on a night adventure to the playground – she’d chose a dress, packed her little bag, wore her shoes, opened the gate and walked out.
Sad. Surreal. 无奈.
Mummy feels like a broken person.
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